so i was watching one tree hill last night and it got me thinking about girls and why they cheat..... in my opinion i think girls are reactive and they only cheat if a dude gives them reason to cheat, if they cheat regardless then in MY opinion they are jus hoe bags but anyhu wat im tryna find out (and this is were i need girls to help me out on) is where is the line for when a girl now starts thinking of doing her dude false in other words when is a dude now crossing the line????
In one tree hill this girl (Millie) was a virgin and in luv wit her dude (Marvin). one of Marvins ex's (Geege) was flirting with him sending him all kinds of texts and pictures and he wasn't flirting back but i guess he wasn't stopping her either.... his girl Millie saw this stuff and concluded wateva she concluded and went and did him greazy by sleeping wit some dude. Now I get that obviously she wouldn't have done it if she hadn't seen the foolishness in Marvin's phone but he didn't even do nothing with Geege, no kissing, no huggin, no sexin, NOTHING! n she went and did him greaz lyk that......
Lets change the scenario (coz i knwo this happens in real lyf all the damn tym) and say he was infact flirting back with her but still didnt do anything as in didn't kiss her, touch her, sex her etc but Millie still goes and sleeps with some dude because of what she saw in other words as far as she is concerned she drove him to do wat she did
My question to ya'll is who is at fault, Marvin for condoning her flirting/flirting back but not doing anything or Millie for cheating?
If they are both at fault my question is who is more at fault/who should be doing more work to fix the relationship???
In my opinion I think Millie is a hoe bag and shouldnt have done Marvin lyk that
ReplyDeleteOK! So Milly shouldn’t have cheated, that’s just wrong but the only reason she cheated was because that doubt was already in her mind coz of the texts/calls from the other daje. THEN Marvin left it wide open for her to cheat by condoning the other daje’s behaviour! So the original fault is with the dude!!! But yeah cheating is just wrong…ther’s better ways to fix things. As for the ‘work’…they both have to put it in if they wana fix it – otherwise its LATE for the relationship! Relationships are a 2-party thing – whether its going good or bad!!!!
ReplyDeleteMillie should've confronted him first.....having said that he was foolish enough to keep the messages, which leads to that fact that he was entertaining that other girls foolishness...the question is why?
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